Is your internal compass actually yours?
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Pissing off to Portugal in the middle of our 6 week sprint to shake ass on a rooftop might seem like avoidance to you. But we made a deal to go wherever connection lives. So there we were.
If you don’t take the time to examine what you are striving for, it is very easy to end up down a path that you don’t recognise and have no idea how the hell you got here.
This episode is about asking the right questions to strengthen your internal compass without shaming the past versions of yourself that got you here.
How confident are you that the ‘more’ you want is actually yours and not borrowed?
What would a stronger internal compass change in this season of your life?
If you could wave a wand. What 3 “mores” would you wish for?
Would you still want it if no one knew you had it? What does your answer tell you?
We hope that these questions will light the little fire that says thanks for your advice, and do what you know to be true to you.
If anything in this episode stirs something big, please bring it to a friend, a therapist, or someone who loves you.
listener RESOURCES
Somewhere between what you actually want and what you have been taught to want, there is a gap. This workbook is built to help you find it.
Using a framework called Possible Selves, the workbook walks you through the version of you that is seeking, the version that feels obligated, and the version you are quietly afraid of becoming. Think of it less like a roadmap and more like a compass check. It will not tell you where to go. It will help you notice when you are spending more time in your borrowed reality.
Grab your copy and sit with the questions. No overthinking required.